In Intimate Relationships
The little things are BIG THINGS...
SORRY- A MAGIC WAND
We are all human beings and to err is common. “Sorry” is a magic word that symbolizes apology and repentance. In most of the drifting and dilapidated relationships, misunderstanding words or deeds that hurt your friend can be amended, and see how the relationship flourish again as if it’s a spring.
I have a friend, the dearest one I ever have, with whom I used to pick fight with. After bitter arguments, raising blood pressure and spurting tempestuous feelings, I make myself sure that our friendship is buried. To add oil to the fire, one of my friend who is a wizard in astrology once predicted that our friendship will not be long lasting. Ruminating this in mind, I lay sleepless, and hunger less, with ruddy eyes. And each and every time, the word sorry approaches me with its magic wand. I apologize , to him, say sorry not once but countless, resurrecting the relationship, rejuvenating it with new energy. I overcome my disappointments bigger than life on that word and words are not enough to describe the feelings when my heart lightens up.
If you say “I repent” and cry within the four walls of your room, your friend is never going to know what is there inside your heart. So no meaning in saying that. Instead of that tell him sorry. That would be feeling like heaven for your friend. I assure you….
I firmly believe, no other word can impart the capacity to initiate change in another person...
Showing posts with label friendship. Life stories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Life stories. Show all posts
Friday, August 22, 2008
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Secrets Of HAPPY FRIENDSHIP
In Intimate relationships
The little things are big things.
RECOGNITION
Its Human nature to incline towards recognition, and everyone needs it.
"Thanks..."
Even though it sound a simple word , it symbolize recognition. Give your friend the due recognition, which you may feel not necessary as long as they are your friends.
Aneesh is my friend, who once helped me to get a letter from his office, which was of great importance to me. I called him and sought his help to get it that day itself. It was a normal official business for him., but when I got the letter, I expressed my gratitude by giving him a sweet along with a word of thanks.
Later he told me that he used to help so many friends, but no one cared to recognize it and continued telling me like, he felt as if no other friend ever loved him as I did , on that day
The bottom line is, when I recognized his service beyond friendship, he was feeling like exalted; and I learned with ruptures in my heart that recognition is an important thing in relationship
When your friend is devoting his valuable time ,talent and doing things for you he says silently that he loves you. Because no one will take pain to help a stranger except on a few occasions. So please be kind enough to recognize his service, even though we may think , why all these bullshit formalities among friends? Let me ask if you are unable to show these formalities to your friend, to whom else would you serve it in order to express your love and respect for him....?
The little things are big things.
RECOGNITION
Its Human nature to incline towards recognition, and everyone needs it.
"Thanks..."
Even though it sound a simple word , it symbolize recognition. Give your friend the due recognition, which you may feel not necessary as long as they are your friends.
Aneesh is my friend, who once helped me to get a letter from his office, which was of great importance to me. I called him and sought his help to get it that day itself. It was a normal official business for him., but when I got the letter, I expressed my gratitude by giving him a sweet along with a word of thanks.
Later he told me that he used to help so many friends, but no one cared to recognize it and continued telling me like, he felt as if no other friend ever loved him as I did , on that day
The bottom line is, when I recognized his service beyond friendship, he was feeling like exalted; and I learned with ruptures in my heart that recognition is an important thing in relationship
When your friend is devoting his valuable time ,talent and doing things for you he says silently that he loves you. Because no one will take pain to help a stranger except on a few occasions. So please be kind enough to recognize his service, even though we may think , why all these bullshit formalities among friends? Let me ask if you are unable to show these formalities to your friend, to whom else would you serve it in order to express your love and respect for him....?
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